Friday, April 10, 2009

The Day before Good Friday

Nick and I were thrown a curve ball yesterday. I've felt sort of emotionally drained and a little numb since. Nick was told by his employer that they were letting him and another salesman go for financial reasons. Three days notice. Not only was it a complete shock to us but the lack of time put us into a bit of a panic. I mean, we have one kid sick on breathing treatments and immunizations coming up and my first thought is...health insurance. Nick has been spending all his time of the phone trying to let all his connections know and asking them if they know of anyone who is looking to hire. He's willing to do whatever he can in the meantime. We have such a great church family and we have someone who already had him look at their deck and some doors to work on. He's talking to some other people too. All I could think was...we barely make ends meet now with me not working full time. We've cut the obvious things so I could stay home so there's not a ton left to cut. We're running pretty lean now. He'll lose his cell phone. We were paying a portion out of our check to use it as his personal as well. So we'll have to do something there. As you can tell...I'm a detail person. I'm stressing about the details. How we're gonna pay mortgage and health insurance. My freelance has slowed down too which doesn't help much. Part of me feels like I need to try and do something. I've been meaning to get some sample wedding invites together to be able to show. I've just not had the time. Nick doesn't want me to worry about having to take on that pressure but I do feel it. I was just thinking before this happened, if I could get in one hour a day of freelance, that would be $1000 to contribute/month. It just doesn't come like that though. Everyone's cutting back and marketing takes a cut too. Nick sees the big picture and even though he took a blow emotionally, he's thinking of ways to make money and not worrying about the details. The Lord has always provided for us. Even when it didn't make sense on paper. We always have had what we needed...not a lot extra...but what we needed. Emotionally with Hannah leaving for bootcamp, the babies being sick and now this...I just feel wiped. It's weird though...I have an overall peace though that it will be okay. Thank you Jesus for that!

There is one thing I do know...and it's becoming one of my favorite verses:
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. Romans 8:28

I know that even though this is not what we planned to happen and it's not what we wanted to happen. We KNOW that God works for the GOOD of those who love Him. We certainly love him and we know, this is his plan and it'll accomplish his purpose as long as we continue to follow his lead. What would we do without the relationship we have with Jesus. Nick and I kinda chuckled that there's nothing like getting the ax the day before good friday...but really...it's a reminder of what Jesus gave up for us. Makes our situation seem like a drop in the bucket.

Please pray that we are able to follow God's lead to what he wants for us next. For wisdom to know how to handle finances and for strength to weather this storm. Thanks.

7 comments:

Rachael said...

i am so sorry things are so rough right now, just know that you are in my thoughts + prayers.

Abbi said...

i'm sooo sorry about this situatioin! all i know is like you said "the Lord will provide!" he's a great God and can do anything! you and your family will be in our prayers....
don't try to stress over it....i know that's impossible..but you as a mommy have enough to worrry about! put in God's hands and he'll provide!

Shelby said...

Robin,
So sorry you guys are going through this. I will pray for you. I can definitely sympathize with the whole nebulizer thing - not fun, but I can tell you that it will pass. Eventually, you will put that nasty machine away and little lungs will breathe on their own. It just takes time. As for Nick's job - I am so sorry - what field is he in? You mentioned sales. I will keep you in prayer.

Heather said...

I am so sorry to hear about all this. Praying for your family and lifting y'all up tonight. Hope y'all have a great Easter!

Dawn Massey said...

i will be praying for you! i am so sorry about the timing. my husband got let go of his job 5 years ago on the friday before mother's day - nice gift for me,huh!! and to give you some encouragement - he found a job right away and has been there ever since, God completely lined up the unexpected so that my hubby could be at a better job and also one where he works less hours. all that to say, rest assured God will provide - lean on Him when you are stressing in the details!! give it to Him - God wants our worries - cast them to Him!

KAL071203 said...

Robin, I am praying for you guys! and hoping Luke is feeling better soon, my oldest son is using his nebbie right now as I type. It does get easier! Happy Easter

Dani B said...

Been thinking about you guys! I emailed you, but I'm not sure if you got it or even use that email address. If you get a chance, email me at Cumberland Valley or INeedSolar. I might have a little work for you and want to talk about Nick and what he does. ~Danielle